Sunday, May 31, 2009

Spain 58th Week 24-30 May 09

Spain 58th Week 24-30 May 2009

Bienvenidos de Espana! Another beautiful week in Madrid has come and gone. The temperature is getting pretty warm….approaching 90 degrees already-they say this summer will be a scorcher? Things already appear to be a bit on the brown side here (fields, weeds, etc).

This week was a good one in the Temple, the saints from Porto, Norte (Portugal) were our guests and they always bring a lot of enthusiasm and spirit. We accomplished a little bit of everything as far as Temple work goes and all seemed to be very satisfied with what they were able to accomplish. It was probably the last time that we will see most of these people as their next scheduled Temple date is after we depart for home. It really is true that it is/will be harder to leave the mission field than our family at home…because we know that you will be returning home at some time to see family, but we may never see the people of Spain, Portugal and France again. It is really amazing how you can love people so much and it really saddens you to know that you may have seen them for the last time.

On Wednesday night we took opportunity to go to the Prado Museum. Neither one of us is really into art work, so we spent our obligatory 45 minutes in the museum and decided that we had seen enough. I’m sure that we will get back there some time to spend another few minutes as they say it is the third most famous museum in the world? It really is a gigantic place and world renown for many pieces of it’s collection. But for now we are happy that we have been there and now have the T shirt.

Last Sunday night they had the final wrap-up fireside of the celebration of the 40th Anniversary of the Church in Spain. They have put together a short (15 minute) video of old photographs of people, buildings, Temple and much more. It was impressive to see the early roots of the Church and then see what it has become today. Unfortunately, there were many people in the video that are now inactive for some reason or another – at the same time it was really heartwarming to recognize people in their younger days with whom you work closely with today. The spirit of the meeting was fantastic and they invited about 10 people to come forward and in three minutes share their thoughts of the gospel and what had attracted them to the Church. All of them stated it was the spirit that they felt as they read, prayed, attended meetings and participated in callings. The spirit bore witness to me during that meeting that the Lord is pleased with the progress of the Church here and for the people that have stayed close to the Lord. All have made great sacrifices, but have become leaders not only in the Church but in their jobs, communities and their families. We have truly been privileged to serve in such a wonderful country with such wonderful saints. We are humbled when we see and hear the circumstances which brought them to the truthfulness of the gospel and how they continue to live their lives through all of their adversities.

Today, Sunday, we were invited again to eat dinner at the Picard’s (Michel and Juliette-Boudreaux France) along with the Rust’s (David and Eleanor-Vernal, Utah), Sister Lorraine Linares (Kearns, Utah) and Sister Herminia Martins (Portugal). The food was superb, a 4-5 course meal that was truly French (1-sliced meats, vegetables, bread 2-pork roast, potatoes, squash, eggplant, broccoli with mushrooms, and drink of choice 3-salad and cheeses with bread 4-dessert cake and ice cream. It was really good and the company was better as we were able to get to know each other a little bit better. The Picard’s are going home in two weeks during the Temple closure (they then will go to Kansas for the birth of a granddaughter) then return to the Temple in September of this year, so we will get to see them again before we leave.

Today in Church we had a combined Priesthood and Relief Society lesson and the Bishopric talked about the unity, harmony, and agreement that we all need to have in our lives. They started by talking about the unity of the Godhead, the Church, the Family, our jobs, and basically everything in our lives and how important it is that we are all pulling in the same direction. When we pull against each other things start going crazy and we are never able to progress. I reflected upon times in my life when I have not been in harmony with those around me and I can honestly say that I have lost ground in my pursuit of happiness. It is only when I recognized this that I was able to make corrections and come back into line that I was able to see my way ahead. I must be accountable for my actions and how it not only affects me, but my family, my friends, my co-workers and everyone around me. When, not if, I need to make corrections I need to make sure that I know which way to go and how I need to act or react in certain conditions, for if I continue to do the same things and expect different results I will be looking for a long time because nothing will change.

Oh, Repentance, what a wonderful blessing. What a loving Savior that paid the price for us if we will but change our actions and walk in His footsteps. We hope and pray that each of you will continue to walk in His path and be instruments in His hands as He brings to pass the immortality and eternal life of man. We love each and every one of you with all of our hearts.
Love Mom & Dad / Nana & Papa / Elder y Hermana Shaw

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Spain 57th Week 18-24 May 09

Spain 57th Week 18-24 May 2009

We have had a quiet week as far as going and doing things. But in the Temple it was a busier week because the French Stake has been here. They bring a lot of workers with them and it was great to see them again. We have been brushing up on our French words like Oui, Bonheur, offal, and ou la la! Many of them can speak English which is why we have gotten to know them even better. There also seemed to be more than the norm of Americans in the Temple and at church. Four young men had been backpacking all around Europe. I’m sure they have had quite the experiences! Others are here from BYU study abroad and others who served missions here. When possible we try to take them around to see the rest of the Temple, which they always seem appreciative.

On Monday, we went to another Mall to eat. There is a new Taco Bell there which seems to do well. Of course we had to see what kind of stores were there afterwards. We went with our friends the Lunt’s. We usually send our husbands off together and tell them we will meet them after we have shopped! That way they can’t interfere with our shopping.

Tuesday evening , 19 May they had a special meeting in our chapel. That day marked forty years of the church being here in Spain. They had two Government officials there who spoke and congratulated the church for being here. They said they were glad that they have religions freedom here which enabled our church to be here. The church presented each of them with a Lladro figure of a family.

We have been able to get permission to use the new family search program. We had to get permission because people in Utah have not been able to have and use it yet. Now I need to learn how to use it! There are so many different resources in the program which make it much easier to do and verify the work.

The weather here has been beautiful and it had been a long time since it had rained. On Friday night that changed. I was in the living room and had dozed off, when I woke up there were many flashes towards the window. At first I was afraid that my eyes were bad till I opened the drape. The wind was very strong and the rain was very heavy. Lightening was lighting up the whole sky, and thunder was rumbling. Tom slept through the whole thing! It was quite a show.

We feel so blessed to have been called here to serve. We have enjoyed the country and the culture it has to offer. We love sharing our time here with all of you. We are grateful for your prayers and support. We are grateful to spend five days a week in the Temple.There is so much to learn within those walls. We love the gospel for the knowledge it gives us that families can be together forever. We love all of you Mom and Dad / Nana and Papa / Elder y Hermana Shaw

Monday, May 18, 2009

Spain 56th Week 11-17 May 2009

Spain 56th Week 11-17 May 2009

Ole! Ole! So goes the bullfight. The pageantry and the hype are outstanding.

Sharon, Ron Bradshaw and I went to a bullfight during this week during the month long San Isidro celebration. During this time they have bullfight about four nights a week but beginning in June they revert back to their “Sunday Only” schedule so we thought we had better take advantage and experience this tradition of Spain. Sharon said it wasn’t as bad as she thought it would be. The pageantry and the pomp and ceremony were interesting to watch. To start with all of the matadors, picadors, banderilleros, horses that drag the bull out and others all enter the ring and parade around to the applause of the crowd. I have copied some of the information off of the web site to give a better understanding of the event: The Las Ventas Bullring (holds probably 10-12,000 people) Madrid's main bullring is called La Plaza de Toros de Las Ventas del Espíritu Santo, or more simply, Las Ventas (Alcalá street, Metro: Las Ventas). Built in mudejan style, this impressive building is formed of red brick and ceramic tiles. The construction, designed by José Espelius and Muñóz Monasterio, was terminated in 1929, although the ring itself wasn't inaugurated until 1931. Today the ring is also used for rock concerts and political meetings. They sell seats according to where they are located (distance from the ring and also Sun seating (in the sun for the entire time-we bought these seats), Sun/Shade seating (part time sun/part time shade), or Shade seating (entire time in shade-most expensive). San Isidro
The best time to see bullfights in Madrid is during the months of May and June. The world famous San Isidro bullfight festival takes place during these months and brings together the best fighters, bulls and aficionados. There are fights every day for 20 days, starting at 7 o'clock in the evening. The festival includes a variety of different fights, with novillos (young bulls), rejones (bullfights on horseback) and Goyesca fights (in period costume)

Bullfight Notes:
A corrida or bullfight normally lasts around 2 hours, but there is no fixed time limit and depends on how many bulls are sent back to the corral or any other incidents during the fight itself.
A normal fight brings together 3 matadors (the ones who actually kill the bull) with their respective troupes and 6 bulls, 2 for each fighter. The matadors fight in turn, the most experienced fighter first, unless a new fighter is being presented for the first time in Madrid, in which case the most experienced fighter will cede his turn to the new fighter. This is called dar la alternativa.

The matadors can be distinguished from the rest of the troupe since they will be the only ones whose traje de luces (suit of lights) are braided in gold.

Each matador directs a 15 minute session, called a faena, which in turn is divided into 3 sections. The first section involves the matador receiving his bull with a large cape. Here he is able to make his first judgments regarding the bull's strength, courage and general validity for the fight.
The second section, la suerte de varas, involves picadores and banderilleros. Picadors, on horseback, use long lances to weaken the bull's neck muscles. The bull's courage can be discovered by his willingness to approach the horse and lance. Secondly, the banderilleros stab brightly-colored barbed sticks or banderillas into the bull's back. The matador receives the bull alone in the third and final section of the faena, perhaps the most interesting for aficionados. Holding a small red cape now, he attempts to pass the bull as close to his body as possible in an artistic and varied manner. After effecting these passes, he will take a real, sharpened sword to attempt to kill the bull by bringing it on to him with its head lowered so he can thrust the sword between the bull's shoulder blades. Following this the horses come in and drag the bull out of the arena and another fight starts immediately.

The fight is then judged by the public. They may whistle and boo, remain silent, clap or award the matador one or both of the bull's ears by waving a white handkerchief until the fight president awards this coveted prize. If a fighter receives two ears in the same afternoon, he is lifted up on to somebody's shoulders and transported out of the ring and through the main gate. He has thus opened the Puerta Grande, the maximum accolade for any fighter.

The public may also judge the bull to have been so brave and noble, that it should have its life spared (indultado). This happens only very rarely. The Bulls have pedigrees and are bred, raised and trained for their big day in the ring. For the more experienced bullfighters the bulls must be between 4-6 years old and weigh a minimum of 1,100 pounds (most are much larger, but extremely agile) for the less experienced bullfighters their bulls must be between 3-4 years old and not weigh more than 1,200 pounds.

The final bull of the night actually got a couple of pretty good licks in on the matador. On one pass the bull’s horn got the matador’s hand and it took him a couple of minutes to wave it off. Then a couple of passes later he upended the matador (this picture is a little fuzzy-but notice the position of the matador’s head).
He ended up face down on the ground about 5-6 feet from the bull…we are sure the bull could have finished off the job, but the other matadors, banderilleros came running with their capes and the bull kind of froze, thus saving serious injury. His shoes were knocked off and he had blood on his forehead, chest and leg. After a couple of minutes the matador righted himself and begin again to fight the bull, eventually he finished him off to the delight of the crowd…although the bull was also applauded. It was an interesting evening and an experience one should not miss if in Spain.

We also had the opportunity of showing a Russian Missionary couple (Elder & Sister Moleff-Washington State) here for their visa renewal a little bit of Madrid. He is seventy, she a little younger. They had requested a Russian mission as he has some family from the area; they seem to take the rough conditions in Russia better than many we have spoken to.

This week in the Temple was a pleasant but fairly busy week. By week’s end we had about 100 sisters in from Cadiz and Barcelona and they kept us really busy. We had double sessions all morning long on Saturday; it was very tiring but very rewarding to see so many people. I had probably my most spiritual experience thus far in the Temple. There was one older gentleman that came on Saturday, he could hardly walk, could not use his right hand and could not say one audible word. I had the privilege of presenting him at the final station of the endowment and had to be his voice while communicating there. He would nod his head with every word that I said he knew what I was saying and he agreed), it soon brought tears to my eyes and I was choked up hardly able to utter the wording. About half way through the person on the other side also begin to feel the spirit and he became choked up. There is no doubt in my mind that this great man is a chosen child of our Heavenly Father knows him and loves him. Sorry I can’t say more about the experience, but I hope you all can understand through the spirit and that each of us takes opportunity to attend the Temple whenever we can, because if he can do it, we can certainly do it.

There was also a special Madrid Spain mission reunion during the week. This coincides with the celebration of the Church being in Spain for 40 years. On Saturday the Temple received a phone call from one of the old Mission Presidents (President Steven Shallenberger) requesting a special session for the missionaries and their spouses. They came at 10:00 am (about 50) and we had a great session. I had recognized the name of the old president, but wasn’t sure until I saw him. We had served together in Uruguay-Paraguay as young missionaries, it was good to see him again and meet his wife. Just that morning he had spoken with our old Mission President (Gardner H. Russell) he was going to call him back and tell him that he had run into me in the Madrid Temple. It really is a small world in the Church!

On Friday, we invited the missionaries (Elders Sperry and Rands) for lunch. They are great missionaries and we had met Elder Sperry when he served in the office when we were obtaining our Residency Cards. Elder Sperry goes home at the end of the month.

On Sunday we were in Church when who should appear but Sharon’s cousin Jeanne McDaniel Walker (youngest daughter of Wayne McDaniel). She was there with her husband (Larry) and daughter (Tenisha).
Tenisha had served in the Madrid Mission but was only able to serve for 10 months due to severe feet problems that had come on during her mission. They had just completed a 14 day cruise in the Mediterranean and Northern Europe, they were here for 4 days for her to show her parents her mission and then return home to be married in June. They also have twin sons serving in Peru missions. It had been a while since we had seen them but both Sharon and Jeanne recognized each other about the same time in Relief Society. We invited them to dinner and then we all went to Retiro Park in downtown Madrid and walked around. Here we saw the memorial that had been built to the victims of the terrorist attack at the Atocha Transportation Center in 2003. There are 191 trees representing each person killed in the attack (juniper or olive tree). It is a sobering memorial, but beautiful.

We want each of you to know that we love our mission in the Madrid Temple. God does live and Jesus is the Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. We have a living Prophet on the earth today. Please know of our deep love for each of you, we feel of your prayers, support and love each and every day. Please take good care of yourselves and keep doing the things you know that you should be doing.
Love Mom & Dad / Nana & Papa / Elder y Hermana Shaw

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Spain 55th Week 4-10 May 2009

Spain 55th Week 4-10 May 2009

Happy Mother’s Day to all you special Mom’s out there. In Spain they celebrated "El dia de la Madre" last Sunday. In Relief Society the primary children came in and sang some songs about Mother and gave out flowers made of crepe paper to all the Mom’s. They were so sweet. I received some beautiful roses from Tom which I will enjoy all week. Thanks for the many cards and emails I have received-I love you all, and consider myself the most fortunate person on the earth to be a Mother and a Nana.

On last Monday we went with one of the Missionary couples (Aderson & Dolores Santos) to a Chinese buffet place to eat. They are a really fun couple from Sau Paulo, Brazil, you are always laughing when you are with them. Brother Santos's speech is about 70% Portuguese and 30% Spanish and it is difficult to understand what he is saying outside of church related topics.Chinese restaurants are all over in Spain. We just wish that they also had Mexican restaurants, they have a few but not like we are used to!

Our home evening was with all the Temple Missionaries and the Picard’s, the couple from France gave it. They are from France but he is Iranian and she is Armenian. They are both so sweet and they both can speak English so we can communicate, which is great. They told of their growing up and how they met and how they joined the church. Iran was once a country of religious freedom and later became an Islamic Nation. During the revolution many Russians came to Iran (Armenians and other Jews). Brother Picard said that when he was growing up he would go listen outside of a church which sang songs in Gregorian, which had a very beautiful sound. He loved the songs and said they gave him goose bumps. This began his conversion to Christianity. He went to Tehran for college. While there he met Juliette. They fell in love but because Armenians didn’t intermix, it was ten years before they got permission to marry. The one stipulation was that they had to go somewhere else to get married and live. This was the wishes of their Fathers-they had respect for all good things, but still did not want to go against custom. Seven years later the Missionaries knocked on their door and began to teach them. They were so happy to have two young men who were faithful and who loved them. They read the Book of Mormon and prayed and fasted to see if it was true. Brother Picard couldn’t believe the Joseph Smith story. Many years later he read about Joseph Smith, Brigham Young and other Prophets, and he knew that they were Prophets. When the Missionaries said it was time for them to get baptized Juliette was not ready. She felt that the church that she had been going to was just as true as our church, so why change. Brother Picard was baptized June 24th 1976. While he was in the baptismal font his wife stood three different times and said “I want to be baptized now.” She said it felt as though someone was lifting her up each time and of course that was the spirit. They did everything to make it possible for her to get baptized and she too was baptized on that day. It had been years since they had baptized a family in France, so everyone was so thrilled. They said the gospel totally changed their lives. They have had three children and all of them are active. Two of them went on Missions and all three were married in the Temple. They are a great inspiration to us and truly genuine people. They also provided a handout on a religion that I had never heard of “Zoroastrianism.” “It is the oldest (3,500 years ago) of the revealed world-religions, and it has probably had more influence on mankind, directly and indirectly, than any other single faith” Mary Boyce (British scholar of Iranian Languages). As one reads about their beliefs there is a great similarity between this and the LDS faith. They asked Tom to give the opening prayer. Then they asked me to give the closing, which totally took me by surprise! I stumbled through it and everyone clapped for me when I finished. That’s a first!

We had dinner at the Picard’s today and it was great and way to filling!First we had a plate with hors’doeuvres. We then had the main dish which was pork chops and rice with pineapple. We had bread with each serving as well. Then we had cheese and crackers and a green salad next. We then had dessert; heaven knows where we put it all! They are such delightful people! Sister Picard told us that she didn’t really want to come, but her Bishop her husband and children encouraged her. Now she is very glad that they are here. They leave in June to travel to Kansas to be with their daughter when she has her baby, but will come back in September to the Temple.

We have been so happy serving here as well. So many people from different places all enjoying service together in the Lord’s house. We love you all in more ways than you can even imagine. Once again all of you wonderful Mom’s have a great day and know that we are thinking about you. I was just thinking about the Missionaries in the MTC here who are all so excited to talk to their families today. I remember that being the highlight of my Mother’s Day when you boys were on your Missions.

Much love to all of you, Mom & Dad / Nana & Papa / Elder y Hermana Shaw

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Spain 54th Week 27 Apr - 3 May 09

Spain 54th Week 27 Apr – 3 May 2009

Hola from Spain! Esperamos que todos sean felices! It has been another great week in Madrid. We were pretty busy this week, especially Friday and Saturday. We had groups from Portugal, Eastern Spain and France here over the Labor Day Holiday. Over 100 people came from Portugal, 60+ from Eastern Spain (Elche) and 40 sisters from Paris….needless to say, we were very busy. I had the opportunity of being over the Baptistery on Saturday and we had sessions every two hours with about 25-30 young people in each group (7:30 am – 2:30 pm), then they asked me to stay and help with other ordinances during the afternoon shift. It was pretty tiring but well worth it to see the people with smiles on their faces knowing that a lot of work was done for their family members.

There has been one little lady here for a full five weeks now, she is from Portugal, walks with the aid of two crutches and is in constant pain. She does five sessions a day and never, ever complains about anything….she is truly an angel in disguise.

Last Monday we had a Going Away and a Welcome party for three couples; the Ramos (Salvador and Dolores from Malaga), and the Thomas’s (Gordon and Kathryn from Provo, Ut) are going home and the Picard’s (Michel and Juliette from Bordeaux France) have been here for about a month and will be here for another two months, then they are going to Kansas to visit their daughter and family and then will return for a few more months. The party was great, the food wonderful and the company entertaining. It is always amazing to see what kind of food you get at a pot luck dinner. We all ate too much, but the afternoon passed really quickly.

We had the opportunity to talk with Ashtyn on Saturday following here baptism. She looked just like an angel and you could tell, even through the webcam, that something was different. She was excited and so was the rest of the family, we really missed being there but hopefully she and her family felt our spirits. We had sent her a couple of things in the mail to open on her baptism day, but unfortunately they were broken in shipping. We look forward to seeing pictures of the blessed day. We heard from some that were there that her baptismal service was very touching and spiritual, enhanced by the fact that her sister Whitney and her cousin Jenacee offered the prayers. The power and spirituality of the little ones is breathtaking! Congratulations Ashytn, we love you very much.

Today we had the Thomas’s over for dinner (they leave Tuesday) and we were sure the last thing they wanted to do was cook, so it was a great time. They have had some wonderful experiences in their lives from being professors at BYU Hawaii, BYU, Mission President, Area Welfare Missionaries, Area Executive Secretary in Mexico and missionaries in the Canary Islands. Their lives have been ones of service…they will be greatly missed; hopefully, we will run into them at some of the BYU football games.

Also, after church today all of the Temple Missionaries, Presidency, President & Sister Hill (MTC President) and Elder & Sister Sproul (CES Missionaries) posed for a picture in front of the Temple. These are some of the finest people that we have ever had the privilege of serving with.

Brother Carbajal from the Temple Department of the Church was here this week looking at the Temple and accompanying buildings. The Lunt’s are friends with him as Berkeley’s sister had helped to raise and provide support to Brother Carbajal when he was young. He is originally South America and now has responsibility for many of the Temples in the world.

We have also been getting updates from Scott and Malia in Maui, it sounds like they are having a fabulous time…they even have the locals singing special songs to Barbara (Malia’s mom) over the phone. That experience was a chance of a lifetime as Barb spent a lot of time in Hawaii while growing up. Be careful and have fun.

Jeff, Amanda and kids are getting excited to move into their new home…should be this week. They are just finishing up a couple of little things and for the funding of the loan. I am really sorry that we will miss the moving part of the ordeal….my back already feels years younger!

Well, we know the gospel of Jesus Christ is TRUE! We are the literal children of a living God and He knows each and every one of us. We have the opportunity of returning to live with Him and our Savior Jesus Christ if we but obey His commandments. We love all of you and you are constantly in our prayers. Love Mom & Dad / Nan & Papa / Elder y Hermana Shaw